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Joseph Dopkin, Oral History 2021/07/24
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Joseph Dopkin, Oral History 2021/07/24
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Ashley Tibollo sits down with Joseph John Dobkin to discuss how his life has been impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic. In this interview his discusses how his life at school as a University student has changed. He also discusses how the dynamics in his dorm room and life at home with his family were impacted. At the end of this interview Dobkin touches on political topics, his views on how the pandemic was handled by local and state governments. He also discusses his views on both anti-mask and BLM protests.
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audio
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English
Education--Universities
English
Government State
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Home & Family Life
English
Politics
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Protest
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Pandemic Skeptics
English
Social Distance
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Pandemic Pets>Our Wild Animal Friends
Date Submitted (Dublin Core)
07/25/2021
Date Modified (Dublin Core)
08/04/2021
09/23/2021
06/04/2022
Date Created (Dublin Core)
07/24/2021
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Ashley Tibollo
Interviewee (Bibliographic Ontology)
Joseph Dopkin
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12970
Buffalo
New York
United States of America
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male
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18 to 24
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white
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Audio
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english
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00:32:05
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Ashley Tibollo 00:00
State your name for the record. We are recording. Great. Hey, my name is Ashley to bolo. It is July 24 2021. It is 8:23pm. We are at my home in williamsville, New York. I am with Joseph Dobkin who I refer to as dokkan dokkan. Please remember that any answers you give will be included in a public it publicly accessible database. Do I have your consent to record this interview and include it in that archive? Yes, you do. Thank you. Okay, could you first please state your full name and tell us what are the primary things you do on a day to day basis are like your job or school or extra public curricular activities?
Joseph John Dobkin 01:02
Sure. My name is Joseph john Dobkin. I'm a student at Paul Smith College in the Adirondacks. I'm majoring in fisheries and wildlife sciences with a botany minor. Currently, I'm in Buffalo, working landscaping and working at Urban roots cooperative garden market, trying to earn some money for my upcoming semester. I guess my most often frequented pastimes are working and sleeping right now, as I try to prepare for the upcoming semester. I'm also taking some summer courses. So that has been high on the agenda. Yeah.
Ashley Tibollo 01:39
And what is it like at Paul Smith, and and Rhonda, it's great.
Joseph John Dobkin 01:44
It's great. I love it because we have have, I believe 14,000 acres of land that is attached to our campus in the visitor Interpretive Center, we call it the Vic, and has a bunch of trails and opportunities to explore the area and study both fisheries and wildlife, as well as different ecology courses. And it also provides a great outlet for like sports and cross country skiing and all sorts of winter activities. Which is most of the climate at Paul Smith's it starts to snow around October and we get blanketed with snow and wins. And it's excellent. I love the winter. As for academics, I'd say it's science oriented. But we also have a large portion of our curriculum that is dedicated to coronary hospitality and business. And then we also have a few DC sports teams.
Ashley Tibollo 02:46
Awesome. Sounds like a great place. Yeah. So when you first learned about COVID-19, what were your thoughts about it?
Joseph John Dobkin 02:59
Well, I first learned about COVID-19 when all of my friends and I were sitting in our dorms kitchen, kind of just chatting and eating. And someone said, you know, there's this viral outbreak and I believe Manhattan. And we have a couple students from the city and we were like joking around like, oh, like don't get sick and bring it back when we you know, are there two or three cases? And then I think a day or so later, was our spring break. So we were all like, you know, safe travels. We went home for spring break. And they extended the break for another week. And then we all got the message that Coronavirus, you know had been at large essentially, and we were not permitted to come back to school. So I didn't really hear about it from news, but more so my institution. And then Honestly, it was kind of a shock. It was not a great experience having to finish all of my classes online because so many classes and so much of what we do is all hands on because of the space that the college provides to us. I had a lab that I was doing Miss netting in which is where you set up these folds of thin netting to catch birds and then you ban them for research purposes. And we couldn't do any of that. I couldn't do my salamander research. So it was all very like disheartening to hear that we couldn't go back and finish what we started. Yeah, that'd be incredibly disappointing. Yeah, it was, it was it was definitely a shot. And then after the semester ended, I was working at Urban roots cooperative garden market during COVID, which was was very interesting because usually we have a good amount of customer base that comes through the yard and it's not very staff oriented. Whereas we'll just walk around be like Hi, Do you need anything. But now we switch to everything being online or suite a package all of the orders, and I was in charge of making sure that cars run a line and run Running orders out to people in rain snow, son, every every weather. So it was a lot harder to adjust. But once we got adjusted, I think I appreciated the time where I had to work really hard to do basic tasks, because it definitely filled the time at the beginning of COVID, where my other friends were getting stressed or anxious, or having other mental afflictions due to COVID.
Ashley Tibollo 05:27
And what issues are most concerned you about the covid 19 pandemic,
Joseph John Dobkin 05:32
in regard to like, other people, or myself, either one or both. I think in regard to others, I've noticed how selfish people can be. And how self interested people can be. There's a very obvious tie with some people not wanting to wear masks, because they believe it's their right to do what they want to do. Which I don't agree with, I think that you have the right to do whatever you want, but with repercussions of yourself and others. So if you don't wear a mask, or you don't get vaccinated, you're putting yourself and others at risks, which is selfish. But more. So he created almost a double standard where people were like, Oh, I don't want to wear a mask, because you're infringing on my body and my rights. But then they don't stand up for, you know, women's choice. So it wasn't necessarily the masks or the not wearing of the mass that I had an issue with. It's the double standard that people support. One general idea to back their lack of mask wearing, but they don't support the idea when it's someone else choosing what they want to do with their body. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. So essentially, it's not like the not the mask green that bothers me. But the the double standards that kind of started to come up and I started to see where people would defend their own point illogically just to do whatever they wanted to do. So that's what kind of irks me about how it affected other people. And for myself, and for a lot of other people, I think it became, because of that fast switch and having to adapt to the new normal. I think a lot of people had issues with anxiety and depression and trying to figure out what they were doing and where they fit into this new normal. I think COVID made me like a little angrier at the world, because it's like, why can't we fix this? What what what do we need to do what's not happening, what is happening, and I became almost ravenous for information, trying to figure out what could be done and how I could get back to where I want it to be and where I was. And at some point, I realized that we couldn't right away, and we're back, moving to where it was now. But, you know, with the new strains, and with people still not wearing masks in certain places, or even athletes, saying that they don't want to be vaccinated because they're, they don't trust Dr. Fauci or they're afraid of, you know, microbots just how people go to the furthest lengths to do whatever they want to do. It's still there that upset me. It's still there. But I think we're moving in a good direction.
Ashley Tibollo 08:35
And you said, you know, you have this thirst for information. So where is that information coming from? like water VPN, your primary sources of news and information during the pandemic,
Joseph John Dobkin 08:49
I think a lot of it because of, frankly, how busy I've been and how just awful I feel after I watched, like, the six o'clock news of my parents, a lot of it has come from discussion with a lot of different people who have a lot of different opinions, whether that be, you know, liberal, right wing, or even religious, like where everyone kind of fits in the picture. I think that I've learned a lot from discussion. And still a little bit, I try to spread out my different news sources that I consume from, like, I'll watch some right wing and left wing media and then some more centrist media, just because I think that every single side is important to know, to try to pick at all the perspectives so that you can form your own. I will say that both sides right and left and some of the things that I don't agree with or would call dumb that certain people do on both of those sides have pushed me towards centrism in this time just because you know, I can't agree with either one right now, because there's certain individuals acting out that it's just like, well, I don't agree with either of those. So I feel like I have to be moderate. And, you know, not necessarily in a political sense, but also just like living like, I can't go out and go crazy and party, but I also can't work all the time. Because, you know, I need to preserve my mental health. So I feel like I'm living in a very moderate, moderate form right now. And it's, it's upsetting, because if you, you know, stand for nothing, you fall for everything.
Ashley Tibollo 10:34
And how did you feel about or how did you handle the, the need for quarantine or isolation,
Joseph John Dobkin 10:44
my parents are at risk. So I felt I felt like I really needed to. For them, I definitely had, you know, the point where I was like, man, I just, I wish this was all over, I could go out my friends. And there were points where people invited me to go do things, and I had to decline and it felt awful. And I had major FOMO. But at the end of the day, it was worth it because neither one of my parents contracted the virus, and I didn't attract the virus. And everyone who I knew generally within my circle was safe, which was a blessing. So were you quarantine with your parents, then I was, well, we were living in the same house, I was going to my mom and I were going to work. My dad is retired, so he would stay home, we were going to the stores since we already had contact with people. But I was pretty much staying at home or taking walks. But I wasn't really seeing many people. And we had like a family gathering with my mom, my dad, my uncle and his girlfriend, and we were all six feet apart, and outside with masks on and then as mandates slowly started to lift, we were able to slowly begin to bring our gatherings closer and lose the mass. But we were I don't think we've had an indoor gathering. Since COVID started, not at least one that I've been a part of with more than my mom, my dad, myself and my girlfriend, like a large quantity. And then like smaller groups for less. I don't know, it's just, I feel even when people walk up to me on the street, I went for ice cream earlier today. And this gentleman came like right up next to me. And instinctually I moved away I kept my my distance I feel like I will always or at least for a long time. Keep some sort of distance away from people. And I don't know if that's just reactionary from COVID or if now I have this like cognizance of personal space and how close I am to someone and how close someone is to me. But yeah, I think that my gatherings have gotten a lot smaller, both with my family and with my friends because of COVID. Like I don't, I don't go out with like 15 people anymore. Yeah.
Ashley Tibollo 13:11
You mentioned your girlfriend as well. But did you have to be separated from her during that quarantine time?
Joseph John Dobkin 13:19
We were so our school's policy is that we were allowed guests from the school. So other students in the dorm with us, but we had to be wearing mass. Whereas roommates could sign a contract and either decline and say that neither one of the roommates had to wear masks or both of them had to wear masks. But there were there were agreements set up through that through Residence Life and housing. We had to wear masks because we were in different dorms. But hopefully, I believe the mandate for our school this year is if you're vaccinated, you are allowed to be maskless unless you would obviously like to wear one of your own, you know, on ability. But yeah, it's it's a little concerning, because most of our school is where, you know, predominantly white institution. And there are a lot of people from red areas which tends to be the find the people who are more against wearing masks and it's a little scary because we only have, I would say less than half of our campus vaccinated, which you know, I'm gonna have to quarantine before I come back home to keep everyone safe. Even though I'm vaccinated. I don't you know, a 710 day quarantine isn't going to do anything. I can work on my classes, I can do something but you know, I feel comfortable around other vaccinated people but there's still that that fear especially because of the new variants coming out. I don't know what these people do in their free time. I don't know if they're going to ragers I don't know if they're going to see their whole family and God knows where so you know, I think it's better to err on the side of caution until we're we can be 100%
Ashley Tibollo 14:56
What did you and your family and your girlfriend or are friends due for recreation during COVID-19? Since you've been so isolated
Joseph John Dobkin 15:07
for the first couple, few months, I didn't, I didn't really see anyone. I would go on, like walks or meet up with one person. And we would stay socially distance across, like on the like on opposite sides of the trail on like a park and stay masked up. And then as you know, mandate, slowly loosen, we would take the mask off. And then most of most of everything I did was outside. Like I said, I haven't had a big in home family gathering. I've been to other friends and other people's houses. But yeah, I, there wasn't really a ton of recreation, it was more so I felt like I had to take a hit and just be a little antisocial so that I can keep everyone safe, especially my parents. But it's slowly starting to pick back up now where you know, I feel comfortable seeing 567 people in a home. And once again, I feel super cognizant of how close I am to someone. So I'll go and like sit in a chair or all scooch over on the couch. I don't still want to be right next to someone. I don't know if that's a little bit of trauma from the the COVID or if that's just a coincidence, like I said, but not much recreation.
Ashley Tibollo 16:26
You know, you you've touched on sort of mental health, a little bit. So in what ways do you think that COVID-19 is affecting people's mental health, health and or physical health?
Joseph John Dobkin 16:39
Well, I think in regard to physical health, a lot of good things have been done with, you know, different people and pop culture and social media and even just, you know, influential people who who know a lot of people in their circles have been good about putting out fitness content, like oh, you can work out at home, you can do this, you can do that. Which kind of affected my mental health because I was like, oh, man, I didn't really get fit in quarantine. What am I doing? Did I waste all this time, all this all this given? Essentially, like potential that I had to do something great with my body that I wanted to do? And I just didn't it's like, Oh, I almost keyed me in like, Oh, is that is that laziness? Could I have done better? Which kind of helped me find motivation to do other things towards excellence? In regard to mental health? I think I think uncertainty definitely brings fear, which can cloud judgment. I think my judgment was definitely clouded in COVID. Because I didn't know I was in the house the whole day, I was pretty much in my bed when I got home from work. And I was like, why am I doing the right thing? Should I be doing this? Should I be doing that? I'm very happy that the hard part is over, it's definitely a lot easier now that I can go out and touch grass and see my friends. And I think that humans being social creatures, definitely need some sort of stimulating physical contact or conversation or something. And I think that that took a big hit to a lot of people's mental health is not being able to interact with other human beings.
Ashley Tibollo 18:18
Yeah, for sure. I know, I felt that really hard. Um, did you or anyone, you know, contract COVID-19
Joseph John Dobkin 18:32
we had some positives at school. But no, they weren't allowed to release names. For I'm sure legal reasons. I've not anyone that I knew. Personally, I've heard stories of like friends of friends, family, contracting the virus. I'm trying to think if I, if I'm forgetting anyone, but I mean, if you tried to remember tells you anything. It's that either I didn't know them very well, or I don't have a very good memory, but no one I can think of off the top of my head, which is once again a blessing. Yeah, for sure.
Ashley Tibollo 19:11
As your experience throughout this pandemic transformed at all, how you think about your family, or friends or community? And if so, in what ways?
Joseph John Dobkin 19:29
I definitely think about my family a little differently. Because some extended family took on the non believer. Like it doesn't exist. It's the government this it's that and it's like, you know, people who I thought were generally intelligent, nice, nice, fine folk who are related to me via blood. You know, I was surprised for sure. So I definitely don't want to say everything they say I take with a grain of salt. But I definitely think more carefully about how I process what they're saying. Because I don't know, that seems like a big leap in logic to be like, oh, there's a virus, government, for sure. So I definitely think more about what people who I trusted, I'm close to say. And just status fact. And I might accept automatically, I kind of put it in a second thought now. Most my friends were pretty good about it. And I was. I wasn't surprised, but I was impressed that everyone was so diligent, and everyone took the right steps.
Joseph John Dobkin 20:47
it was sad when we couldn't do things or disappointing when someone said, You know, I can't, I can't do this, I can't do that. Or we can't do this. We shouldn't be doing that. But I was impressed and happy that everyone ended up doing the right thing collectively in my friend group. And then as of the community, I don't really do much community outreach. So I'm not I guess I'm not really at liberty to say, because I didn't have much experience with that.
Ashley Tibollo 21:21
Oh, no problem. Do you have any thoughts about how local state and or federal leaders responded or are responding to the crisis?
Joseph John Dobkin 21:39
Like I said, I tried to try to not watch the news, because it makes me very upset. However, I think that I was very happy to be in New York State. I know that Cuomo is not a perfect man, he doesn't do everything. Right. But the way that he handled the COVID crisis, I think, was pretty exemplary. And I was happy with everything in regard to COVID that he did. And
Ashley Tibollo 22:18
knowing what you know, now, what do you think that individuals communities or governments need to keep in mind for the future?
Joseph John Dobkin 22:28
I think that there needs to be a better plan in place. I think this was fortunately a wake up call and not, you know, wiping out a third of the world's population. I think that this, if we don't learn from this as a species, we failed, because, you know, we, we just need to be ready. And I think more research going into this, and the fact that we were able to create a vaccine so quickly, is excellent. But we need to continue on and keep pushing forward with, with all the research into this area and have a sophisticated, detailed plan that is accessible to most people so that they know what to do for themselves as well. And it's not like people are looking at the TV waiting for the government telling you you need to wear a mask, and people are like, Oh, I should wear a mask. I should quarantine I should do this. I should not buy all the toilet paper up. I should maybe get toilet paper, basic things. Yeah, I think just just a detailed and sophisticated plan that everyone has access to in basic crisis information.
Ashley Tibollo 23:39
I think that sounds like pretty sound advice. I have two more questions for you that are a bit more pointed. Just because of you know, we are friends. So I know of your individual sort of circumstances. My first one has to do with the illness that you experienced during the pandemic. It was not COVID. But I'm wondering, it was fairly serious and prolonged. And I'm wondering if you felt that the health care that you received during that time was affected at all by COVID-19.
Joseph John Dobkin 24:18
Okay, clots on back there. So I contracted mano on the 11th of April. And I was sitting on a 21 or 2021. And I was sick for about three and a half weeks with a fever ranging from 101 to 106. Point three at some different parts. It was pretty crazy ride. I don't think that the health care that I received was affected by COVID more so I wish my school had a better way of taking care of ill students. So I don't think it was like a American health care issue, but more so Though a my college dropping the ball and not doing everything that they could I think that their concern for me was heightened because of COVID. I was put in quarantine almost immediately by myself, like I I offered to go into quarantine I called the health services, but they were really great about, you know, bringing me enough water keeping me, you know, warm, changing the temperature and stuff. So they were great in that regard. But I just wish I would have gotten more like tests and, and because I didn't know that I had mano, I didn't get a mano tests until almost the 20, like mid 20s in a month. And they thought it was you know, everything else, I went to the hospital twice because my fever was so high. And no one thought to give me a mano test, because I'd already had it before, which is, you know, a rare occurrence for you to get it twice or have a flare up again. So I don't think it was like a health care issue necessarily, but more so my college. Got it.
Ashley Tibollo 26:03
And my second question is, since your education is so focused on sort of nature in the environment, do you have any opinions or things to say about how COVID-19 may or may not have impacted the environment?
Joseph John Dobkin 26:26
Um, I know it's been said that they're like the environment, maybe a little bit of a resurgence, like Mother Nature was kind of coming back almost during this time where people were not driving as much or using as much gas etc. I think that I don't know if that was just like a boom and bust or if it had any correlation or causation. If it was causative, excuse me, but I would like to think that we could kind of write it and hopefully push some more ecological reform, to hopefully like, you know, make the earth a better place. But I don't know if there's enough there to convince the people in power who need to make those decisions to actually push out ecological reform?
Ashley Tibollo 27:22
Do you think that ecological reform or environmental awareness could prevent another sort of zoonotic epidemic, like COVID-19
Joseph John Dobkin 27:38
I think that studying the natural world is definitely a way to get more information about things that, you know, afflict humans, like viruses and different illnesses and illnesses that may affect other creatures. So I don't think it would hurt to put more study and push more in that area. But, you know, if the COVID doesn't take us out, my planet is only going to last so long. I think that both are very important, both in in the human, you know, keeping humans alive. I mean, it definitely wouldn't hurt to learn more about our planet and try to save it. But I don't know if it's necessarily related, in my mind, to what happened with COVID. But that's just my experience.
Ashley Tibollo 28:27
Awesome, nice. Was there anything that you wanted to discuss that we did not get to touch upon?
Joseph John Dobkin 28:37
Um, I think that some of the protests that happened during the pandemic kind of shifted my view, a lot. And with some conversations with friends that I've had shifted my view a lot about how I think about other people and how other people might think about me.
Ashley Tibollo 29:00
Are you talking about protests in general, or more specific ones, like Black Lives Matter or anti mass protests, or which
Joseph John Dobkin 29:09
I think that anti mass protests definitely affected me in the sense that I just, I was so amazed that I was, like, not amazed in a good way either. It was just I honestly have no words, I kind of almost disregarded it, because I knew that if I got into it, I would just get riled up and upset and that wasn't worth my time. Because what I say is not going to change their mind if hundreds and 1000s of other people are telling them and they're, you know, yelling in their faces about it. In regard to BLM. I think I definitely learned a lot of information, not necessarily revolving BLM, but just the way that people feel and how they're treated. I don't like talking about BLM with people. I think that black lives do matter, but the people don't like the organization for racial reasons or otherwise. So I would much prefer to talk to people about how people are treated versus saying, BLM that's BLM that I think that the Black Lives Matter movement is necessary. Because they, they've not been shown that their lives matter, or at least matter as much. I have a friend who feels like he can't marry, or have kids with someone of his race, and he is a minority, because he doesn't want his kid to go through what he's been. He's like I have to marry and have a child with like a white woman. Because that is the only way that my kid is going to have a chance. And that is so upsetting. Awful. It's so, so sad. So that kind of that I was talking to him at the beginning of the pandemic, and that kind of jump started my exploration and knowledge of BLM and other movements that support, you know.
Ashley Tibollo 31:13
And for the record, what race do you identify with personal white, okay.
Joseph John Dobkin 31:19
And I think that as a white man, I think it's very important to not just be an ally, but an advocate, and go out and do stuff and go to the protests. And I was able to go to one protests, I had to stay in the back and stay mad, because like I said, I had to keep my family safe number one priority, but maybe it's important to be there and show people that you care whether they're, you know, white, black, Hispanic, Asian, etc. You just show people that you care about them, and they have a place in the world that you're living in. I think that's the most important thing.
Ashley Tibollo 31:54
Great, well, thank you so much for sharing and answering my questions and giving this contribution to the archive. It's greatly appreciated.
Joseph John Dobkin 32:02
Thanks for having me.
Ashley Tibollo 32:03
Thank you.
State your name for the record. We are recording. Great. Hey, my name is Ashley to bolo. It is July 24 2021. It is 8:23pm. We are at my home in williamsville, New York. I am with Joseph Dobkin who I refer to as dokkan dokkan. Please remember that any answers you give will be included in a public it publicly accessible database. Do I have your consent to record this interview and include it in that archive? Yes, you do. Thank you. Okay, could you first please state your full name and tell us what are the primary things you do on a day to day basis are like your job or school or extra public curricular activities?
Joseph John Dobkin 01:02
Sure. My name is Joseph john Dobkin. I'm a student at Paul Smith College in the Adirondacks. I'm majoring in fisheries and wildlife sciences with a botany minor. Currently, I'm in Buffalo, working landscaping and working at Urban roots cooperative garden market, trying to earn some money for my upcoming semester. I guess my most often frequented pastimes are working and sleeping right now, as I try to prepare for the upcoming semester. I'm also taking some summer courses. So that has been high on the agenda. Yeah.
Ashley Tibollo 01:39
And what is it like at Paul Smith, and and Rhonda, it's great.
Joseph John Dobkin 01:44
It's great. I love it because we have have, I believe 14,000 acres of land that is attached to our campus in the visitor Interpretive Center, we call it the Vic, and has a bunch of trails and opportunities to explore the area and study both fisheries and wildlife, as well as different ecology courses. And it also provides a great outlet for like sports and cross country skiing and all sorts of winter activities. Which is most of the climate at Paul Smith's it starts to snow around October and we get blanketed with snow and wins. And it's excellent. I love the winter. As for academics, I'd say it's science oriented. But we also have a large portion of our curriculum that is dedicated to coronary hospitality and business. And then we also have a few DC sports teams.
Ashley Tibollo 02:46
Awesome. Sounds like a great place. Yeah. So when you first learned about COVID-19, what were your thoughts about it?
Joseph John Dobkin 02:59
Well, I first learned about COVID-19 when all of my friends and I were sitting in our dorms kitchen, kind of just chatting and eating. And someone said, you know, there's this viral outbreak and I believe Manhattan. And we have a couple students from the city and we were like joking around like, oh, like don't get sick and bring it back when we you know, are there two or three cases? And then I think a day or so later, was our spring break. So we were all like, you know, safe travels. We went home for spring break. And they extended the break for another week. And then we all got the message that Coronavirus, you know had been at large essentially, and we were not permitted to come back to school. So I didn't really hear about it from news, but more so my institution. And then Honestly, it was kind of a shock. It was not a great experience having to finish all of my classes online because so many classes and so much of what we do is all hands on because of the space that the college provides to us. I had a lab that I was doing Miss netting in which is where you set up these folds of thin netting to catch birds and then you ban them for research purposes. And we couldn't do any of that. I couldn't do my salamander research. So it was all very like disheartening to hear that we couldn't go back and finish what we started. Yeah, that'd be incredibly disappointing. Yeah, it was, it was it was definitely a shot. And then after the semester ended, I was working at Urban roots cooperative garden market during COVID, which was was very interesting because usually we have a good amount of customer base that comes through the yard and it's not very staff oriented. Whereas we'll just walk around be like Hi, Do you need anything. But now we switch to everything being online or suite a package all of the orders, and I was in charge of making sure that cars run a line and run Running orders out to people in rain snow, son, every every weather. So it was a lot harder to adjust. But once we got adjusted, I think I appreciated the time where I had to work really hard to do basic tasks, because it definitely filled the time at the beginning of COVID, where my other friends were getting stressed or anxious, or having other mental afflictions due to COVID.
Ashley Tibollo 05:27
And what issues are most concerned you about the covid 19 pandemic,
Joseph John Dobkin 05:32
in regard to like, other people, or myself, either one or both. I think in regard to others, I've noticed how selfish people can be. And how self interested people can be. There's a very obvious tie with some people not wanting to wear masks, because they believe it's their right to do what they want to do. Which I don't agree with, I think that you have the right to do whatever you want, but with repercussions of yourself and others. So if you don't wear a mask, or you don't get vaccinated, you're putting yourself and others at risks, which is selfish. But more. So he created almost a double standard where people were like, Oh, I don't want to wear a mask, because you're infringing on my body and my rights. But then they don't stand up for, you know, women's choice. So it wasn't necessarily the masks or the not wearing of the mass that I had an issue with. It's the double standard that people support. One general idea to back their lack of mask wearing, but they don't support the idea when it's someone else choosing what they want to do with their body. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. So essentially, it's not like the not the mask green that bothers me. But the the double standards that kind of started to come up and I started to see where people would defend their own point illogically just to do whatever they wanted to do. So that's what kind of irks me about how it affected other people. And for myself, and for a lot of other people, I think it became, because of that fast switch and having to adapt to the new normal. I think a lot of people had issues with anxiety and depression and trying to figure out what they were doing and where they fit into this new normal. I think COVID made me like a little angrier at the world, because it's like, why can't we fix this? What what what do we need to do what's not happening, what is happening, and I became almost ravenous for information, trying to figure out what could be done and how I could get back to where I want it to be and where I was. And at some point, I realized that we couldn't right away, and we're back, moving to where it was now. But, you know, with the new strains, and with people still not wearing masks in certain places, or even athletes, saying that they don't want to be vaccinated because they're, they don't trust Dr. Fauci or they're afraid of, you know, microbots just how people go to the furthest lengths to do whatever they want to do. It's still there that upset me. It's still there. But I think we're moving in a good direction.
Ashley Tibollo 08:35
And you said, you know, you have this thirst for information. So where is that information coming from? like water VPN, your primary sources of news and information during the pandemic,
Joseph John Dobkin 08:49
I think a lot of it because of, frankly, how busy I've been and how just awful I feel after I watched, like, the six o'clock news of my parents, a lot of it has come from discussion with a lot of different people who have a lot of different opinions, whether that be, you know, liberal, right wing, or even religious, like where everyone kind of fits in the picture. I think that I've learned a lot from discussion. And still a little bit, I try to spread out my different news sources that I consume from, like, I'll watch some right wing and left wing media and then some more centrist media, just because I think that every single side is important to know, to try to pick at all the perspectives so that you can form your own. I will say that both sides right and left and some of the things that I don't agree with or would call dumb that certain people do on both of those sides have pushed me towards centrism in this time just because you know, I can't agree with either one right now, because there's certain individuals acting out that it's just like, well, I don't agree with either of those. So I feel like I have to be moderate. And, you know, not necessarily in a political sense, but also just like living like, I can't go out and go crazy and party, but I also can't work all the time. Because, you know, I need to preserve my mental health. So I feel like I'm living in a very moderate, moderate form right now. And it's, it's upsetting, because if you, you know, stand for nothing, you fall for everything.
Ashley Tibollo 10:34
And how did you feel about or how did you handle the, the need for quarantine or isolation,
Joseph John Dobkin 10:44
my parents are at risk. So I felt I felt like I really needed to. For them, I definitely had, you know, the point where I was like, man, I just, I wish this was all over, I could go out my friends. And there were points where people invited me to go do things, and I had to decline and it felt awful. And I had major FOMO. But at the end of the day, it was worth it because neither one of my parents contracted the virus, and I didn't attract the virus. And everyone who I knew generally within my circle was safe, which was a blessing. So were you quarantine with your parents, then I was, well, we were living in the same house, I was going to my mom and I were going to work. My dad is retired, so he would stay home, we were going to the stores since we already had contact with people. But I was pretty much staying at home or taking walks. But I wasn't really seeing many people. And we had like a family gathering with my mom, my dad, my uncle and his girlfriend, and we were all six feet apart, and outside with masks on and then as mandates slowly started to lift, we were able to slowly begin to bring our gatherings closer and lose the mass. But we were I don't think we've had an indoor gathering. Since COVID started, not at least one that I've been a part of with more than my mom, my dad, myself and my girlfriend, like a large quantity. And then like smaller groups for less. I don't know, it's just, I feel even when people walk up to me on the street, I went for ice cream earlier today. And this gentleman came like right up next to me. And instinctually I moved away I kept my my distance I feel like I will always or at least for a long time. Keep some sort of distance away from people. And I don't know if that's just reactionary from COVID or if now I have this like cognizance of personal space and how close I am to someone and how close someone is to me. But yeah, I think that my gatherings have gotten a lot smaller, both with my family and with my friends because of COVID. Like I don't, I don't go out with like 15 people anymore. Yeah.
Ashley Tibollo 13:11
You mentioned your girlfriend as well. But did you have to be separated from her during that quarantine time?
Joseph John Dobkin 13:19
We were so our school's policy is that we were allowed guests from the school. So other students in the dorm with us, but we had to be wearing mass. Whereas roommates could sign a contract and either decline and say that neither one of the roommates had to wear masks or both of them had to wear masks. But there were there were agreements set up through that through Residence Life and housing. We had to wear masks because we were in different dorms. But hopefully, I believe the mandate for our school this year is if you're vaccinated, you are allowed to be maskless unless you would obviously like to wear one of your own, you know, on ability. But yeah, it's it's a little concerning, because most of our school is where, you know, predominantly white institution. And there are a lot of people from red areas which tends to be the find the people who are more against wearing masks and it's a little scary because we only have, I would say less than half of our campus vaccinated, which you know, I'm gonna have to quarantine before I come back home to keep everyone safe. Even though I'm vaccinated. I don't you know, a 710 day quarantine isn't going to do anything. I can work on my classes, I can do something but you know, I feel comfortable around other vaccinated people but there's still that that fear especially because of the new variants coming out. I don't know what these people do in their free time. I don't know if they're going to ragers I don't know if they're going to see their whole family and God knows where so you know, I think it's better to err on the side of caution until we're we can be 100%
Ashley Tibollo 14:56
What did you and your family and your girlfriend or are friends due for recreation during COVID-19? Since you've been so isolated
Joseph John Dobkin 15:07
for the first couple, few months, I didn't, I didn't really see anyone. I would go on, like walks or meet up with one person. And we would stay socially distance across, like on the like on opposite sides of the trail on like a park and stay masked up. And then as you know, mandate, slowly loosen, we would take the mask off. And then most of most of everything I did was outside. Like I said, I haven't had a big in home family gathering. I've been to other friends and other people's houses. But yeah, I, there wasn't really a ton of recreation, it was more so I felt like I had to take a hit and just be a little antisocial so that I can keep everyone safe, especially my parents. But it's slowly starting to pick back up now where you know, I feel comfortable seeing 567 people in a home. And once again, I feel super cognizant of how close I am to someone. So I'll go and like sit in a chair or all scooch over on the couch. I don't still want to be right next to someone. I don't know if that's a little bit of trauma from the the COVID or if that's just a coincidence, like I said, but not much recreation.
Ashley Tibollo 16:26
You know, you you've touched on sort of mental health, a little bit. So in what ways do you think that COVID-19 is affecting people's mental health, health and or physical health?
Joseph John Dobkin 16:39
Well, I think in regard to physical health, a lot of good things have been done with, you know, different people and pop culture and social media and even just, you know, influential people who who know a lot of people in their circles have been good about putting out fitness content, like oh, you can work out at home, you can do this, you can do that. Which kind of affected my mental health because I was like, oh, man, I didn't really get fit in quarantine. What am I doing? Did I waste all this time, all this all this given? Essentially, like potential that I had to do something great with my body that I wanted to do? And I just didn't it's like, Oh, I almost keyed me in like, Oh, is that is that laziness? Could I have done better? Which kind of helped me find motivation to do other things towards excellence? In regard to mental health? I think I think uncertainty definitely brings fear, which can cloud judgment. I think my judgment was definitely clouded in COVID. Because I didn't know I was in the house the whole day, I was pretty much in my bed when I got home from work. And I was like, why am I doing the right thing? Should I be doing this? Should I be doing that? I'm very happy that the hard part is over, it's definitely a lot easier now that I can go out and touch grass and see my friends. And I think that humans being social creatures, definitely need some sort of stimulating physical contact or conversation or something. And I think that that took a big hit to a lot of people's mental health is not being able to interact with other human beings.
Ashley Tibollo 18:18
Yeah, for sure. I know, I felt that really hard. Um, did you or anyone, you know, contract COVID-19
Joseph John Dobkin 18:32
we had some positives at school. But no, they weren't allowed to release names. For I'm sure legal reasons. I've not anyone that I knew. Personally, I've heard stories of like friends of friends, family, contracting the virus. I'm trying to think if I, if I'm forgetting anyone, but I mean, if you tried to remember tells you anything. It's that either I didn't know them very well, or I don't have a very good memory, but no one I can think of off the top of my head, which is once again a blessing. Yeah, for sure.
Ashley Tibollo 19:11
As your experience throughout this pandemic transformed at all, how you think about your family, or friends or community? And if so, in what ways?
Joseph John Dobkin 19:29
I definitely think about my family a little differently. Because some extended family took on the non believer. Like it doesn't exist. It's the government this it's that and it's like, you know, people who I thought were generally intelligent, nice, nice, fine folk who are related to me via blood. You know, I was surprised for sure. So I definitely don't want to say everything they say I take with a grain of salt. But I definitely think more carefully about how I process what they're saying. Because I don't know, that seems like a big leap in logic to be like, oh, there's a virus, government, for sure. So I definitely think more about what people who I trusted, I'm close to say. And just status fact. And I might accept automatically, I kind of put it in a second thought now. Most my friends were pretty good about it. And I was. I wasn't surprised, but I was impressed that everyone was so diligent, and everyone took the right steps.
Joseph John Dobkin 20:47
it was sad when we couldn't do things or disappointing when someone said, You know, I can't, I can't do this, I can't do that. Or we can't do this. We shouldn't be doing that. But I was impressed and happy that everyone ended up doing the right thing collectively in my friend group. And then as of the community, I don't really do much community outreach. So I'm not I guess I'm not really at liberty to say, because I didn't have much experience with that.
Ashley Tibollo 21:21
Oh, no problem. Do you have any thoughts about how local state and or federal leaders responded or are responding to the crisis?
Joseph John Dobkin 21:39
Like I said, I tried to try to not watch the news, because it makes me very upset. However, I think that I was very happy to be in New York State. I know that Cuomo is not a perfect man, he doesn't do everything. Right. But the way that he handled the COVID crisis, I think, was pretty exemplary. And I was happy with everything in regard to COVID that he did. And
Ashley Tibollo 22:18
knowing what you know, now, what do you think that individuals communities or governments need to keep in mind for the future?
Joseph John Dobkin 22:28
I think that there needs to be a better plan in place. I think this was fortunately a wake up call and not, you know, wiping out a third of the world's population. I think that this, if we don't learn from this as a species, we failed, because, you know, we, we just need to be ready. And I think more research going into this, and the fact that we were able to create a vaccine so quickly, is excellent. But we need to continue on and keep pushing forward with, with all the research into this area and have a sophisticated, detailed plan that is accessible to most people so that they know what to do for themselves as well. And it's not like people are looking at the TV waiting for the government telling you you need to wear a mask, and people are like, Oh, I should wear a mask. I should quarantine I should do this. I should not buy all the toilet paper up. I should maybe get toilet paper, basic things. Yeah, I think just just a detailed and sophisticated plan that everyone has access to in basic crisis information.
Ashley Tibollo 23:39
I think that sounds like pretty sound advice. I have two more questions for you that are a bit more pointed. Just because of you know, we are friends. So I know of your individual sort of circumstances. My first one has to do with the illness that you experienced during the pandemic. It was not COVID. But I'm wondering, it was fairly serious and prolonged. And I'm wondering if you felt that the health care that you received during that time was affected at all by COVID-19.
Joseph John Dobkin 24:18
Okay, clots on back there. So I contracted mano on the 11th of April. And I was sitting on a 21 or 2021. And I was sick for about three and a half weeks with a fever ranging from 101 to 106. Point three at some different parts. It was pretty crazy ride. I don't think that the health care that I received was affected by COVID more so I wish my school had a better way of taking care of ill students. So I don't think it was like a American health care issue, but more so Though a my college dropping the ball and not doing everything that they could I think that their concern for me was heightened because of COVID. I was put in quarantine almost immediately by myself, like I I offered to go into quarantine I called the health services, but they were really great about, you know, bringing me enough water keeping me, you know, warm, changing the temperature and stuff. So they were great in that regard. But I just wish I would have gotten more like tests and, and because I didn't know that I had mano, I didn't get a mano tests until almost the 20, like mid 20s in a month. And they thought it was you know, everything else, I went to the hospital twice because my fever was so high. And no one thought to give me a mano test, because I'd already had it before, which is, you know, a rare occurrence for you to get it twice or have a flare up again. So I don't think it was like a health care issue necessarily, but more so my college. Got it.
Ashley Tibollo 26:03
And my second question is, since your education is so focused on sort of nature in the environment, do you have any opinions or things to say about how COVID-19 may or may not have impacted the environment?
Joseph John Dobkin 26:26
Um, I know it's been said that they're like the environment, maybe a little bit of a resurgence, like Mother Nature was kind of coming back almost during this time where people were not driving as much or using as much gas etc. I think that I don't know if that was just like a boom and bust or if it had any correlation or causation. If it was causative, excuse me, but I would like to think that we could kind of write it and hopefully push some more ecological reform, to hopefully like, you know, make the earth a better place. But I don't know if there's enough there to convince the people in power who need to make those decisions to actually push out ecological reform?
Ashley Tibollo 27:22
Do you think that ecological reform or environmental awareness could prevent another sort of zoonotic epidemic, like COVID-19
Joseph John Dobkin 27:38
I think that studying the natural world is definitely a way to get more information about things that, you know, afflict humans, like viruses and different illnesses and illnesses that may affect other creatures. So I don't think it would hurt to put more study and push more in that area. But, you know, if the COVID doesn't take us out, my planet is only going to last so long. I think that both are very important, both in in the human, you know, keeping humans alive. I mean, it definitely wouldn't hurt to learn more about our planet and try to save it. But I don't know if it's necessarily related, in my mind, to what happened with COVID. But that's just my experience.
Ashley Tibollo 28:27
Awesome, nice. Was there anything that you wanted to discuss that we did not get to touch upon?
Joseph John Dobkin 28:37
Um, I think that some of the protests that happened during the pandemic kind of shifted my view, a lot. And with some conversations with friends that I've had shifted my view a lot about how I think about other people and how other people might think about me.
Ashley Tibollo 29:00
Are you talking about protests in general, or more specific ones, like Black Lives Matter or anti mass protests, or which
Joseph John Dobkin 29:09
I think that anti mass protests definitely affected me in the sense that I just, I was so amazed that I was, like, not amazed in a good way either. It was just I honestly have no words, I kind of almost disregarded it, because I knew that if I got into it, I would just get riled up and upset and that wasn't worth my time. Because what I say is not going to change their mind if hundreds and 1000s of other people are telling them and they're, you know, yelling in their faces about it. In regard to BLM. I think I definitely learned a lot of information, not necessarily revolving BLM, but just the way that people feel and how they're treated. I don't like talking about BLM with people. I think that black lives do matter, but the people don't like the organization for racial reasons or otherwise. So I would much prefer to talk to people about how people are treated versus saying, BLM that's BLM that I think that the Black Lives Matter movement is necessary. Because they, they've not been shown that their lives matter, or at least matter as much. I have a friend who feels like he can't marry, or have kids with someone of his race, and he is a minority, because he doesn't want his kid to go through what he's been. He's like I have to marry and have a child with like a white woman. Because that is the only way that my kid is going to have a chance. And that is so upsetting. Awful. It's so, so sad. So that kind of that I was talking to him at the beginning of the pandemic, and that kind of jump started my exploration and knowledge of BLM and other movements that support, you know.
Ashley Tibollo 31:13
And for the record, what race do you identify with personal white, okay.
Joseph John Dobkin 31:19
And I think that as a white man, I think it's very important to not just be an ally, but an advocate, and go out and do stuff and go to the protests. And I was able to go to one protests, I had to stay in the back and stay mad, because like I said, I had to keep my family safe number one priority, but maybe it's important to be there and show people that you care whether they're, you know, white, black, Hispanic, Asian, etc. You just show people that you care about them, and they have a place in the world that you're living in. I think that's the most important thing.
Ashley Tibollo 31:54
Great, well, thank you so much for sharing and answering my questions and giving this contribution to the archive. It's greatly appreciated.
Joseph John Dobkin 32:02
Thanks for having me.
Ashley Tibollo 32:03
Thank you.
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